FAILURE

Failure is never the end of any life journey; experiences and neither is it the destruction of life dreams under construction nor visions. I would like to view failure in anything as the beginning or the starting point to any journey. Failure makes one aware of possible obstacles that may come their way, and at the same time widening up one’s view in any task. It keeps us on our toes so to speak.

Many of us have failed in so many things, that we have lost count now. We have begun to largely associate ourselves with being incapable of accomplishing anything or let alone start something and see it through. I believe it is that kind of thinking and negativity that hinders us from being a success in all things and becoming goal oriented individuals.

Never forget that “you”, not anyone else holds the keys to becoming successful in your life. Many times as well we blame others for our own faults and misguided decisions. Not completely ruling out that some individuals do contribute to our failures sometimes, just do not dwell on it or allow it to side track you for a long time. By all means analyse any situation and learn all you can from it and take as much positive and negative attributes as you can. This leads to one point I want to make, in order for you to assess a situation and be able to move forward in success. Never forget three types of people in your life, people:-

1.      Who helped you in your difficult time!

2.      Who left you in difficult times!

3.      Who put you in difficult times!

I am not suggesting that you become spiteful, not at all. I am just suggesting that you use these people as stepping stones; as motivating factors both in the negative and positive to avoid failure. Get it out of your head that people will not judge you or talk about you. They will and as time goes on they will double in numbers. Surround yourself with positive energy, with people that motivate you. People that want to see you succeed and become a success. I always say, try not surrounding yourself with people who are exactly the same as you, because if all of you are the same, then the rest are unnecessary. Remember opposites attract. 

To be a success means:

S          -           See your goal.

U         -           Understand the obstacles.

C         -           Create a positive mental picture.

C         -           Clear your mind of self-doubt.

E          -          Embrace the challenges.

S          -           Stay on track.

S          -           Show the world you can do it.

“Failure is only the beginning of a journey”